I'm spending time going through my inbox
this weekend, and I'm cringing as I see how many unread emails that I have in there:
15,804
Those aren't all from "real" people, so don't worry - I don't have 15,804 people thinking "That Marc is a real jerk for not getting back to me"
The truth is, I was on a lot of email lists earlier this year that weren't serving me - and it took me some time to drop off them.
And then
there's that lovely stuff "spam", which has a way of sneaking into an inbox.
But that's still a ton of email, and it's 15,804 little things weighing on my shoulders.
So I made a decision to clean the sucker out. And after I started going through enough emails, I realized a few things:
- more information isn't necessarily better. Get too much stuff coming at you, and your brain will
freeze with overwhelm. It's all about quality over quantity, baby.
- things that bothered me months ago weren't really big deals since I forgot about them before going through my old emails. Now I think "I worried about that?". Don't sweat the small stuff.
- and here's a tip since hundreds of those emails were people asking to be guests on my podcast: when pitching a host, don't send emails that are obvious
copy and paste jobs, I can't count how many emails started with "I'm a big fan of Natural Born Coaches and would love to share my story with your audience .... " and similar verbiage. Send a genuine/real email that shows that you've actually listened to the show. Or get my better half to pitch for you, she's awesome at what she does (
www.InterviewsOnDemand.com)
Going forward, I'm going to be selective on the energy that's spent on my inbox.
I'll be focusing on my clients, and not brain-pickers or people looking to just sell me.
It's my inbox after all, and I get to choose how I respond.
I'd recommend that you take the same approach.
I may not be able to
completely avoid inbox overwhelm, but I'll be better at it this year than last,
Marc
PS: One type of email that I don't mind getting is from people interested in my group coaching program. I have a new one coming up soon, check it out at
www.NaturalBornCoaches.com/group and hit "Reply"
if you have any questions.